the title sayz I'm going thru.  My best friend wants to spend more time w/her boyfriend that me and I understand that.  But when I invite her over and she calls me saying she wants to spend the nite with her boyfriend it fucking kills me! I mean I know I haven't been in a relationship in awhile but no real best friend would ditch her friend (who invited her first) for her boyfriend no matter the situation, but I let that go a couple of times and thought "ok its summer he works alot and she works ok i'll let it go." But now its almost skool time and when she's over she's still talking to him even tho just a few hours ago she was pissed at him becuz he was an asshole.  I don't know I just feel like he doesn't want her hanging out with me and this is his way of messing things up between us.  She's my best friend and I love her to death but there comes a point in everyone's life where we have to chose Friendship VS. Love.  And I don't want that to happen to her becuz I kno she loves him and she cares about him deeply and I don't wanna b the bitch who broke up her high skool romance but I mean come on! First they basically tell me that I'm the reason their relationship is fucked up and now I can't my friend only with out him talking to her in someway shape or form.  Maybe this all needs to happen for something better to come (or at least I hope) I swear I just wanna lie down and cry everytime this happens becuz all I'm trying to do is hang out with my best friend and have a good time but it seems I can't even do that without him wanting to interfere.  Oh well I guess I'll just have to keep my mouth shut about how bad he treats her, how much time he spends with her, and how i supposedly fucked up their relationship. Ta-Ta Loves!